How to get a guy that you don't know at all to be your friend?

Okay, so i have lots of guy friends maybe more than my gal friends... But I have no trouble talking to boy as you can see... But at my church I don't have a lot of guy friends, well because i'm kinda shy there. I'm a little different for most of them... They're are also very critical. I only have two friends at church both girls... Not even really good friends they just feel sorry for me at church. But at school i'm totally the opposite i'm one of the sporty cool girls, the ones that guys hang out with. And the type of girl that everyone wants to hang out with, I'm not those mean girls, just the opposite i'm the good, trouble making girl. Not at church, i'm the shy, quiet girl. And there are really cute guys too!